We all have traits that our man could live without. We know this. Some laugh it off while others play it up. Whether you’re happily involved or just playing the field, there are a few things you should keep in the back of your mind at all times. The descriptions below highlight things that some women do on a daily basis. You know who you are. And these are the things that men hate about you:
YOU CHEAT: Well obviously this would be #1 ! Who wants to be cheated on? If he continues to allow it, he is cultivating bad behavior and condoning your problem. There’s no reason to cheat- if you don’t want to be with him, let him go with his dignity intact.
YOU FLIRT WITH OTHER GUYS: Helloooo.. that’s a no brainer! So there’s this guy you hang around but you’re a little too friendly. There’s not a lot worse than making your man feel that you’re having more fun than you have with him. If you laugh at all of his jokes, touch him flirtingly and hang on his every word, then you should probably be dating him and not your current fling.
YOU DON’T BACK HIM UP: Men have a tendency to stick their foot in their mouth, am I right? If you’re around family or friends and a controversial issue arises, stand by your man. Always back him up. If it’s something you don’t agree with, you can chew him out when you get home!
YOU CRITICIZE HIM: Men need their integrity in tact, along with self esteem. If you criticize him in a way that hurts his successful psyche, that’s a no no. All boys need to believe they can accomplish anything and these types of comments are a total downer for them so they will resent you for it.
YOU LIE: Yes even little white lies. They lead to bigger problems, ladies. You went out with the girls but you told him you were shopping. So what, right? Wrong. If you’re willing to lie about unimportant matters, you’re willing to lie to save face when there’s a more important issue. For most men, lying is a total deal breaker.
YOU NEGLECT HIM PUBLICLY: If your attention is caught by an old acquaintance or friend from work, do not leave your man standing there laughing nervously. Introduce him. If you can’t take the time to regard his presence, he’s pretty low on your priority list.
YOU ABUSE HIM: Yea we all want to lay into our boyfriends once in awhile to let off some steam, but there’s no need to take it over the top! Even verbally. Relationships are built on trust and mutual respect, so have some. You don’t need to fly off the handle to make your point known- show some self control.
YOU DISAPPEAR WITH NO WARNING: Timing does not matter in this scenario. Whether you’re dating one month or a year, you need to keep the lines of communication open. It’s called respect. If you need to get away or you’re going on vacation, he doesn’t need to find out from an answering machine.
YOU HUMILIATE HIM: He is your boyfriend, not your child. Do not correct him in public or in front of family and friends. You are suppose to be equals in a relationship so discuss issues like adults, not children.
YOU ABUSE SUBSTANCES: If he helped you get hooked, he’s got an obligation to the issue that’s risen from it. If he suddenly discovered it, priorities should shift. Having a drug or alcohol problem is a pretty big deal and can definitely be a strain on a relationship if only one partner is partaking.
These really are easy remedies to fix. If you are pulling any of the stunts above, it’s time to analyze your relationship. If you’re doing these things in the first place, you probably shouldn’t be with him. When you are happy and in love, there is no need for this nonsense. Show him some respect and either grow up, or move on.
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