Finding Mr. Right is one of the hardest things in life to do. Either you refuse to admit he’s the one, or you simply haven’t found him yet. On your endeavour, you will meet many types along the way. Here are a few to avoid!
Insensitive Jerk: This non communicator inhabits the body of another at the drop of a hat. He refuses to show compassion or admit when he is wrong. He can be abusive in a verbal manner or hold his emotions back so his partner has no idea what is going on inside that pea brain. We do not like insensitive jerk. Do not be him.
The Trapper: The selfish type who has selective hearing. He stores information in his head to use what someone says against them at a later point in time. His main goal is to humiliate people, you being one of them, just to make himself look good. We don’t like trappers either.
The Pretender: He is a man who does not give a damn about what you or anyone else has to say. He has the appearance of an active listener and fools people every time. Most often he has no clue how you feel at any given moment because his mind is on more important things, like another woman or his fantasy football team.
The Contradict-or: This man takes on many forms, none of which are flattering. He is immature and never takes responsibility for his actions. He either refuses to acknowledge a problem or unleashes an ungodly temper until he gets his way. Worst of all, he may turn his back anytime a conflict arises. Avoiding the problem only makes it more troublesome in the end.
The Egomaniac: He loves to hear the sound of his own voice and has to have attention at all times. Whenever possible, the conversation is shifted to focus on him. He will make himself look like an idiot and be totally unaware because he is enamored enough for the entire population of the country. Please do not become this loser.
Timing is essential, in all walks of life. During the early stages of dating, we’re often too wrapped up in the excitement to pick up on what his true personality is really like. Take the time to get to know him before you make the decision that he is for you. Men have a tendency to morph, and if he has turned into any of the above, I suggest you re-think your relationship.
30/03/2010 at 9:38 am Permalink
I really like the picture you used for this post. Really creative.
Well anyway about the post, I don’t think guys morph into something, I just think girls have such high expectations for what they want a guy to be that when he is not they think this. Or something like this. Just my thoughts. Great post though, and it was really fun to read.
Kind Regards,
JM
07/04/2010 at 2:14 am Permalink
You forgot the main type of guy though. The guy that most guys start off as, and then morph into whatever else. NICE/GOOD GUY!!!
He does it all, listens, is sensitive, caring, will provide, take responsibility, and all of the other good qualities woman SAY they want, yet blatantly overlook when it’s right in their face. And who do they overlook NICE/GOOD GUY for? Those other five losers described in the post. Don’t tell me they don’t, don’t try to explain it. I’ve seen and experienced it a million times. And the reasons chicks have are less than reasonable. I guess the heart wants what the heart wants sometimes. Just don’t complain when you can’t find any NICE/GOOD guys out there. WHERE OUT THERE!!! And you’ll find us, if that’s what you’re really looking for. Just do it before we all morph into those other guys, cause like they say, nice guys finish last; and sometimes we’ll cheat (morph), because you get SICK of being last all the time.
08/04/2010 at 2:28 pm Permalink
I didn’t forget him- there are a few out there! But this is about the guy most of us meet. All good points though, Kyle. You are the inspiration for my next post!