Yes they’re wrong and yes we all do them! It’s time to fess up, laugh out loud, then finally kick these habits to the curb once and for all! Whether you’re still dating or just broke up, here are a few sins we’re all guilty of committing.
Keeping your ex for easy access. Once you break up, cut all ties. And I mean all. Clear him from your phone, your buddy list and your email. When you’re having a weak moment, knowing you can reach him at the push of a button makes it all the harder to stay away. If you still have feelings for your ex, good or bad, having him readily available does not help the healing process.
Faking an orgasm. If you think you’re sparing his feelings by lieing, think again. After you slip up and tell your girlfriend, and she tells another, then she tells another, word will get back to him and totally crush his ego. Every time you pretend to orgasm, you are training your body to think that’s all it is getting and you desensitize it, making it harder to actually climax. So in return, you are hurting yourself as well.
Giving up the nudie pix. It may be “in the moment” at that moment, but if you break-up, you’ll be kicking yourself. Never let him keep evidence of what you did in the bedroom. God forbid anyone else stumble upon them- you don’t want to be the next Paris Hilton.
Having sex after the break-up. This is totally taboo. You broke up with him because he was a complete flake or loser but the sex was great, right? So what! It will be again. With SOMEONE ELSE! If you get back in the sack with him, you’re prone to reminisce and he may temporarily suck you back into his web. Stay focused on why you broke up and move on!
Keeping loo time to yourself. I don’t care how close the two of you are. Do not get so close that you think you can urinate (among other things) in front of each other. Some things should be kept to yourself, and that’s one of them.
Replacing your besties with him. They were there before he came along, and they will be there after he’s gone. If you want to keep your friends close, then be a good friend. Don’t just call them when you have problems or they may not answer next time. Keep a balance so every one’s in check.
Sending him a message about your “feelings.” Put that pen down and take your finger off the keyboard. You made it this far now stay grounded. Showing your vulnerability will only set you up for more heartache. If he knows you’re missing him, he will play on it. If it’s meant to happen, let him make the first move. You don’t want to look desperate.
Now that your head is out of the clouds, practice these rituals to keep it there.
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