If you have self-imposed deadlines (you need to be married with child by age 32) or you have a craze for commitment, you are making yourself extremely undateable. You are unable to keep a man and you turn them off completely with your desire for a serious commitment. Sound like you?
The fact of the matter is, it’s impossible to maintain a healthy relationship with these standards. I’ve composed a list of warning signs to help you realize why men steer clear of you and you cannot hang on to any of them.
You’re ALWAYS in a relationship
Warning bells should sound if you don’t have any particular type. If each of your former boyfriends were as different, as say, Johnny Depp, Billy Bob Thornton and Brad Pitt, that is a clear indicator. People can tell a lot about you from your relationship history and if you’re a desperate woman, your past is one continuous series of relationships. If you don’t have a specific type, that clearly indicates you’re not so much looking for that certain someone, but a certain anyone.
You’re a pushover
Maybe some guys think that’s a good thing. You want what he wants and you think what he wants. But after awhile, it gets old. Stop trying to convince men that you are meant to be together. You’re playing at compatibility. Men want a women with substance, opinions and interests, not a ghost with no identity.
You’re a micro-manager
You have everything planned. Not for the weekend, for every weekend of the next 30 years. If you’re already thinking of names for your hypothetical children or picking out your wedding dress, you are definitely going to scare him away. It’s not ok to tell him you love him two weeks after dating. Get off your “time line.” It’s important to let a relationship evolve naturally, not by pushing it to tick with your biological clock.
You’re obsessed with your pet
It’s ok to be an animal lover, to an extent. If you dote upon them or have obsessive behavior, that may be an indication of a desperate need for affection. If you’re one of those women who refers to your cat or dog as your “child,” don’t count on the man in the room to stick around!
If you are a desperate woman, you specialize in neediness, and that is not a good thing. Get over the idea that life is a time line. You are turning men off with your frantic desire to have a serious commitment. Move forward with life and let love happen. On it’s own.
No Comments on "Are You A Desperate Woman?"