“I am the guy who will text you every single day and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams. I’m the guy who will hold you when you’re crying and wipe away your tears. I’m the guy who still thinks you’re beautiful with no make-up on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt. I’m the guy who won’t pressure you to do things you don’t want to. I’m the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren’t feeling well. I’m the guy who kisses you on the forehead. I’m the guy who’ll randomly tickle you just to hear you giggle. I’m the guy who doesn’t kiss and tell. I’m the guy who actually listens to you when you talk. I’m the guy who’s excited all day because I’m looking forward to our date that night. I’m the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more. I’m the guy who can’t help but smile when you walk into the room. I’m the guy who’ll say I love you first because I’m not afraid to say it. I’m the guy who’s perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling. I’m the guy who won’t lie to you about where he’s going or where he’s been or who he’s been with. I’m the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name. I’m the guy who’s not afraid to tell his friends he loves you. I’m the guy who doesn’t mess with other girls when I have you. I’m the guy who doesn’t care about your imperfections and loves you more for them. I’m the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset. I’M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD. I AM THIS GUY.”
Ok, so this is circulating the internet. But is it true? What do we really have to do to find a man like this? Does he even exist? I’m sure you’ve had a guy who has a few of these qualities, but ALL of them? It would be great to think every girl in the world could come across at least ONE in their lifetime, but certainly that isn’t the case. Or is it?
Finding Mr. Right isn’t going to transform you. In order to make this equation complete, you need to be Ms. Right. You need to be kind, caring, unselfish, and interesting. Take pride in your appearance, know what you’re looking for, and rise above your past mistakes. You are half way there by realizing what you have done in the past. Correct those mistakes and use them to better your future relationships.
You need a man with purpose and direction in his life. One who can make you smile because of his great personality, charm and wit. If you can snag him, even with a few small flaws (which we all have), hold on tight. Just be patient. Make sure the two of you connect on more than one level and everything else will work itself out. You may break a few hearts along the way, but your guy is out there. Somewhere. Waiting to be your Mr. Right.
02/04/2010 at 8:07 am Permalink
I think most guys can be the ‘I am’ guy if they put their minds to it.
Keeping their minds on it is the main problem.
When you meet Mr or Miss right you can forgive/ignore some slight failings (we all have them)but if the failings become major, maybe it is time to move on.
I am not sure I like the idea of being ‘snagged’. A trapped animal springs to mind:)
Dave W
30/08/2011 at 4:54 am Permalink
Russell Handy’s Women’s Guide to the 4 Types of Men
THESE ARE THE 4 TYPES OF MEN THAT ONCE A WOMEN READS THIS – I FEEL THIS LIST WILL HELP TO EXPLAIN WHAT TYPE OF MAN A WOMEN SHOULD LOOK FOR WHEN IT COMES TO A WOMEN FINDING THE RIGHT MAN !
Number 1 Man -can be college educated or not have a college degree but he has a steady job and he is a Number 1 Man who is going to marry you, provide for you and take care of you and the children that he has with you or the children that he or you may already have. The Number 1 Man will love you and respect you and appreciate you even when times are very bad or good. RESPECT & APPRECIATION are the 2 vital elements in making a relationship and marriage work in my opinion and the Number 1 Man knows how to respect and appreciate the woman in his life !!!
Number 2 Man – is the Man that a lot of women would WANT because he’s college educated or not college educated and he has a nice car and house and he makes very good money and he looks fine. Problem with this Number 2 Man is he’s not ready to be a Number 1 Man and he is not ready to be in a serious relationship because deep down he is a DOG even though he is a NICE GUY and the woman eventually finds this out and she gets her heart broke !!
Number 3 Man – is a Man who doesn’t have himself together and he either doesn’t have a job or goes from quitting job to job. This Man has some baby mama drama and he really doesn’t respect or appreciate the woman that he has in his life – (meaning the Mother of his children and YOU). I never understand why so many women are attracted to the Number 3 Man – when it only leads to PROBLEMS AND DRAMA in a woman’s life.
Number 4 Man – is a Man that is already gay or he appears to be a straight Man but he’s actually living a LIE. This Man is on the Down Low and he is a gay Man that has not come out of the closet yet – I’m not at all trying to criticize ANYONE for being gay. I have to tell like it is and I cannot leave out the Number 4 Man because this 4th Man is in the male body.
In my opinion if you come across a Number 1 Man and you see that he is sincere and very nice, don’t think that this Man is too good to be TRUE !! This could be your Number 1 Man and you and him could possibly date and have a great RELATIONSHIP and get married and build a great life together. Always remember to surround yourself with family, good friends and GOD and always strive to live and love the best life you can !!!
To all the women out there I really hope my 4 Types of Men list is helpful to you in finding the right man for your life. I will pray for all you women out there and I hope that you find your Number 1 Man
God bless and take good care of yourself !!!
Russell Handy J.
CEO & Publisher of NextStopIncome.com Magazine – The Magazine for Internet Entrepreneurs