“I am the guy who will text you every single day and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams. I’m the guy who will hold you when you’re crying and wipe away your tears. I’m the guy who still thinks you’re beautiful with no make-up on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt. I’m the guy who won’t pressure you to do things you don’t want to. I’m the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren’t feeling well. I’m the guy who kisses you on the forehead. I’m the guy who’ll randomly tickle you just to hear you giggle. I’m the guy who doesn’t kiss and tell. I’m the guy who actually listens to you when you talk. I’m the guy who’s excited all day because I’m looking forward to our date that night. I’m the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more. I’m the guy who can’t help but smile when you walk into the room. I’m the guy who’ll say I love you first because I’m not afraid to say it. I’m the guy who’s perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling. I’m the guy who won’t lie to you about where he’s going or where he’s been or who he’s been with. I’m the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name. I’m the guy who’s not afraid to tell his friends he loves you. I’m the guy who doesn’t mess with other girls when I have you. I’m the guy who doesn’t care about your imperfections and loves you more for them. I’m the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset. I’M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD. I AM THIS GUY.”

Ok, so this is circulating the internet. But is it true? What do we really have to do to find a man like this? Does he even exist? I’m sure you’ve had a guy who has a few of these qualities, but ALL of them? It would be great to think every girl in the world could come across at least ONE in their lifetime, but certainly that isn’t the case. Or is it?

Finding Mr. Right isn’t going to transform you. In order to make this equation complete, you need to be Ms. Right. You need to be kind, caring, unselfish, and interesting. Take pride in your appearance, know what you’re looking for, and rise above your past mistakes. You are half way there by realizing what you have done in the past. Correct those mistakes and use them to better your future relationships.

You need a man with purpose and direction in his life. One who can make you smile because of his great personality, charm and wit. If you can snag him, even with a few small flaws (which we all have), hold on tight. Just be patient. Make sure the two of you connect on more than one level and everything else will work itself out. You may break a few hearts along the way, but your guy is out there. Somewhere. Waiting to be your Mr. Right.

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