Here we go again… He’s mad at you for something you don’t even know you did wrong! You’re getting the cold shoulder and you’re in the dark about it. If this sounds like something you’ve recently gone through, it’s time to take a good look at your relationship.
If the two of you are having stupid little fights about nothing all the time but making up quickly, you may think nothing of it. It’s like second nature. But that doesn’t mean it’s healthy. Take a step back and analyze the situation. Really think about what the arguments entail, if they even mean anything.
If you’re arguing about whose turn it is to feed the cat, then you’re just plain silly. I’m talking full blown fights over a missing piece of “important paper” that he can’t find. If he’s always got to get a dig in, always making smart alec comments, there may be an underlying issue here. Maybe he is just picking fights to make you walk out or give himself a reason to leave. If you can, talk to him about it. Get to the bottom of it before it makes you hate each other. Because in the end, that’s what’s going to happen.
Constant nagging and bickering is not a sign of a healthy relationship. There must be an issue causing this so you need to resolve it. And quickly. You will come to resent him and constantly seethe every time he walks into the room, causing stress for yourself, in return, starting another argument. It’s a vicious circle that will never end unless you decide to confront it, or cut your losses and leave. So you need to decide if these are just little annoyances, or a big concern for future problems.
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